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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Generally it’s a bad idea.  How long have you been dating?  How old are you guys?[/quote]

4 years, mid thirties[/quote]

Have you talked about marriage?[/quote]

Yes he would make comments about me being a " larla smith" one day. I think he's just slow about it. We talked about doing it once he got his business of the ground. He's done that and he's been in the black for 2 yrs. [/quote]

And what did you say when he said that?
And how recent was it?[/quote]I don't remember what I said. I did once joke about our marriage in 10 yrs to some friends and he was visibly mad. Excused himself from the table mad. He's said something as recently as this summer. [/quote]
He was mad at you?[/quote]

Mad at my comment. We talked about it later he said it upsets him when I say things like that. He says he loves me and we will get married and then he went on complaining about how swamped he is at work. F[b]or the last 2 years he has been pulling 80+ hour weeks[/b]. [/quote]

Before men build a family many have to make sure they are confident they could provide to their standard not yours. He is hustling, 30yo millenials had a different start. Summer isnt that long ago. But you can set a hard line for yourself, even if you love him. If he loves you too, he will show it with his action on how much he is willing to invest and trst with you. A man is not a plan. Have your own, with backup options. But don't propose to this one.[/quote]

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