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[quote=Anonymous]If your conversations about it are devolving into yelling matches, then you’re not going to get anywhere with your sister, in terms of gauging what went on in their breakup, and convincing her that her coping strategies are maladaptive. You have to let go, and just listen, and empathize. Some tough love is okay, but power struggles are not. You don’t hav any control over your sister’s choices. That being said, the fact that she’s stalking him is alarming. I don’t think you should mince words when you talk to her about this - call it what it is. But keep the focus on her, rather than on her ex-BF or his new partner. Don’t engage in conversations about where he is going, and what he is doing; always bring it back to your concern for your sister’s emotional well-being. [/quote]
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