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[quote=Anonymous]Well, it’s wrong in the sense that you are setting yourself up for disappointment, by actively pinning your hopes on wanting something that you cannot control. You can appreciate your husband’s blue eyes. You can look forward to seeing traits of your spouse in your future children. FWIW: my Mom always loved my Dad’s curly hair. She was very vocal about her dislike for her straight, fine hair. She was also very vocal about how she dreamed she would have children with beautiful curly hair. My sister and I had very straight, fine hair growing up. She didn’t realize (until we told her as adults) that her projecting about curly hair, made us feel that she didn’t think our hair was good enough. I was more resilient(didn’t care), but it really bothered my sister. You may not like your brown eyes, but your child may have brown eyes, and love them. Try to teach them to love themself. A blank slate is a beautiful thing to waste. [/quote]
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