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[quote=Anonymous]My ex never had an interest in our son until recently and he is struggling with parenting. You first need to develop a relationship before your kids will take you seriously. Have a family meeting and lay down some rules. Start by limiting screen time to whatever you consider reasonable. I don't know what your relationship is like with your ex but if you can, it's great if you can be on the same page. If not, you lay down the rules and then enforce them. Kids need to feel safe and they will feel this way when living with you is predictable. Bedtimes, chores, etc need to be set-up so they know what to expect. The hardest part is enforcing these things. Don't try to be fun, easy dad who lets them rule the roost. My dad was that way and I felt sorry for him TBH. Then give them choices about things that don't really matter. Let them vote on dinner occasionally or what movie to watch. GL and stick with it. [/quote]
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