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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [b]YOU HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO THROW OUT YOUR CONCERNS CUZ IT MIGHT HURT SOMEBODY'S FEELINGS.[/b] Your husband MUST understand that you all need to educate yourselves about the risks and challenges of having your BIL present and involved in your lives. You guys need an experienced, educated, impartial third party to walk you through this. Screw the potential for violence, why should you willingly and with a smile welcome such uncertainty? It's unreasonable that DH would expect this of you. And, the disregard that your husband is showing would really undermine my confidence in just how seriously he's taking the very normal concerns you've voiced. Get thee to a Yellow Pages. You need to set up meetings with family support groups, medical doctors, social workers----the whole spectrum of area experts. [/quote] 100% this. When it comes to my children I dont care who's feelings I might hurt when protecting my kids. At the very least the BIL might be very scary. I agree with another poster, you simply have to assess the situation yourself when he arrives.[/quote]
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