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[quote=Anonymous]I personally would not. I don't mean this insenstively at all but I know several people that were unsure about number 4 after 40, went for it, and it totally rocked the boat on their families and marriages. -1 had a profoundly SN child that will need care for the rest of their lives and parents were 43 and 45 at birth. -Another found at the 20 week anatomy scan baby only had half a brain and a deformed heart with no chance of survival. They induced at 22 weeks, baby lived for 30 mins, and it has completely broken them. -I was an only child and my own mom changed her mind and went for one more and I have twin brothers and my dad was always resentful. He loves my brothers but was always very open about feeling one and done. My brothers both had minor special needs- learning disabilities (that our school district couldn't accommodate so we also had to leave our supposed to be forever home), and ADHD. [/quote]
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