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[quote=Anonymous]1. You should talk with your exH about age-appropriate conversations with the kids, specifically that his gf should not be discussing her ex husband's behavior or their relationship.

(BTW, you only have HERESAY that her ex is abusive. Unless and until you have definitive proof there is absolutely no justification for you to go ballistic about her ex's alleged behavior and demand that your kids cannot be around her.)

2. If she posts pics of your kids there's not much you can do about it. Especially if your ex is in the photos or has approved it. These are his kids too. If his best male buddy had pics of himself with your kids at a ball game you'd probably not make a peep.  Which leads to...

3. Your emotions.  You admit you are hurt and are also probably jealous and angry and feeling a bit vindictive.  There is another woman who is now your ex's lover and your kids actually like her. As a mother, and former wife, that's a very tough and bitter pill to swallow.

It is vitally important that you do not interfere or create issues when you have no bona fide reason to.  What you will ultimately do is emotionally damage your own innocent children because they will be strangled by your loyalty bonds.

They need to maintain a healthy relationship with their father and that includes whoever he is with, whether you like her or not.

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