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[quote=Anonymous]I don't understand this. He works. You work. When he's not working, he runs errands. When you're not working, you can run errands. He works extra hours. You don't work extra hours. 1) set a budget. He doesn't get to work extra, and buy toys with it, while you have to stay home with the kids. He works for the family, into a budget you both agree on, or he stays at home while you take a walk. 2) set a schedule. You get friday afternoons off, or with him, or whatever you choose. He doesn't get to work extra on friday afternoons. 3) get him to do time-shifted work around the house -- laundry, meal prep, clean the bathrooms, whatever. You do the daiily deal with the kids: breakfast, dress, off to daycare, p/u from daycare, etc. He can't, because he often works when these happen. he can help when he's home. 4) he needs to sleep some. [/quote]
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