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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Hopefully DHs now chronic stomach pain issues can be treated after his endoscopy in a few weeks. It’s not so much waiting for sex, it’s how he reacts when I express sadness that I miss intimacy. When I say that, he yells and tries to shut me down as I’m crazy for even thinking of it. If he said, “ I’m sorry baby, I miss it too.” I’d just hug him and move on.

I feel like he throws temper tantrums and emotionally abuses me and takes his frustrations out on me. [/quote]

I’m pregnant. I feel awful. I don’t want to have sex. My husband misses intimacy. You know who’s the right person to talk to about how this makes him feel? NOT ME. You’re going through something hard but I guarantee he’s going through something harder. Don’t make him medical condition about your feelings. Get your physical intimacy in ways that work for him (cuddles, kisses, whatever) and deal with being horny. [/quote]

Disagree 100%. If you are so selfish as to decide that all forms of sexual relief are off the table for a year+ until YOU are feeling horny again, sorry but that's just a crappy partner and that I would not want to be monogamous marriage with.[/quote]

I’m willing to suck it up a couple of times a week but turns out my husband isn’t into causing me serious pain so he can get his rocks off! We knew what we were signing up for, this isn’t our first kid, and we’ll be back to normal eventually. I’m glad I’m not married to you because we don’t sound compatible. [/quote]

Exactly [u]what[/u] are you doing where intimacy cause you [b]serious pain[/b]? Agree we should not be married because it sounds like you have an extreeeemly limited and selfish view of sexual intimacy.[/quote]

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