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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At this point - low drama [/quote]

Low drama, not gossipy (did YOU know SHE did - fill in the blank with falsities here) or back stabby, not competitive about inappropriate things (like our kids); like to have fun, can talk about any topic from politics (whether or not we agree is fine) to social events, know how to laugh and enjoy life without hurting others.  I have friends from each of the multiple stages in my life (schooling, jobs, etc), over 30+ years, and am so grateful.  There is always an ear ready, and they know they have that in me.  We know each other well, we truly support each other no matter what, and we have been there through life's multiple ups and downs.  Neither side is needy, but we are definitely truly "there" for each other, and truly genuine and honest with each other. If you are worried about appearances, what people think, who supposedly did what, what brands to wear, bag to carry, etc. - don't waste my time.  Life is short, life is to be embraced, and throughly savored and enjoyed with positive people.  Not everything is sunny, and that is okay - but we know how to enjoy life and be grateful.

So much of the former (shallow) I have seen in this geographical area, and I kind of feel bad for people who are from here, who never left - like they might not know what a real friend is - but I digress. I have enough friends in this area, but they are more compartmentalized than my life long friends who know each other when (and are probably greater in number). [/quote]

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