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[quote=Anonymous]No. You do not need to be "gracious" about her flaws because they will impact your life. My DH was largely the same in the early days " just ignore it" was what he would say. Until I was having our first child, age 37 and she started in on the whole "oh its a geriatric pregnancy, I would be worried" and then after, demanding to see our newborn when we were not taking visitors yet. So he managed to man up and speak to her about making demands saying she was not to do it and she was to stop being rude to me. And mostly it stuck because I think she realized she'd sacrifice her relationship with him if she didn't change. Its your DH's job to fix this, in small incremental ways or big loud ones. Up to you and him.[/quote]
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