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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had something similar happen to me but it was my playgroup/mommy group. I found out in a super weird way that they were all talking about me behind my back. These were people I knew from the time my child was born until he was 10.  I just left the group, unfriended everyone on fb, and sent on email that basically laid out what I found out. 5 years later everyone is still friends and every once in a while a friend of a friend will like a picture and it is like a punch in the gut. But I’m better  off without them because I’m 100% sure they are all still talking about each other behind their backs. They just moved on to someone else. Remember that this is not how true friends behave. [/quote]

OP here. I am so sorry that happened to you. Yes, it is the talking about me behind my back that hurts the most. I do not understand, if the people I was close to were upset with me or their attitudes towards me had changed, why they wouldn't just talk to me directly. I don't understand why they continued to act friendly to my face when all this was going on. That's the part that makes no sense to me. It's like they were trying to keep me around for the sole purpose of trashing me behind my back.

Since Covid, a couple people in the group have liked photos of me that a family member posted (no idea why they are friends with this family member on social media but whatever), and seeing it freaked me out. I spent a bunch of time debating in my mind if they were doing it because they missed me and felt guilty, or because they wanted to see how I'd react. I hate it. I just don't want to think about any of them at all.[/quote]

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