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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I appreciate this take on “mediocre fitness” especially since I am just getting back into fitness. I’m new to strength training and still need to modify, go slowly, and learn. I am just not strong, flexible, balanced, or coordinated enough to always follow along with the instructor. But I am trying my best, learning, working hard, being consistent, and being patient. I am seeing and feeling gains. I suppose I am mediocre—in high school, a coach actually told me I was mediocre. I do have a problem with people who make excuses not to start at all, or start and quit, or are too inconsistent to make any gains. They don’t take care of their health because it’s too much work. Is this the type of “mediocre fitness” you’re talking about? I know someone who is proud of her mediocrity in that she refuses to diet or exercise and thinks of those who do as “compulsive” or type A.[/quote] I’m op and judgement just reeks out of that last paragraph. It’s not what I was talking about, but your attitude is. If someone walks three times a week are their making ‘gains’? I think mediocre fitness means maybe not even knowing what a gain is, or caring, just focusing on going out and moving your body. Everyone is on their own journey. I made excuses not to start at all in my 20s, I’m way fitter now, 10 months out from a pregnancy, than I was at 22, drinking and eating pizza. Why do you want 22 year old me to know you have a problem with them. It wouldn’t have made me more active, it wouldn’t have made me understand the value. I knew I was overweight and unhealthy. I had to decide I wanted to be healthy. I see basically no judgement in making it harder for people to start by claiming there is a ‘right’ level of fitness. If you’re more active than you were last week, thats great. Keep it up. If you’re 200 pounds and you go from nothing to four hours of walks a week, that’s actually an improvement. Even if it seems like nothing to someone else.[/quote] All the examples you cite are people who are trying to get fit in whatever way they can muster (time-wise, activity level, any amount of “more active than you were last week”.) kudos to all of them. Walking 3x’s a week, or 200 lbs and walking 4 hours? That’s grit and determination that I respect. That’s how I started and I still have a ways to go. But all yr examples are of people who are doing something. I’m talking about people who are proud of their mediocrity and are all for accepting their unhealthy diet and lifestyle and even celebrating it. And then criticize for people for being “eating disordered” or a compulsive exerciser.[/quote]
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