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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t let on that this is affecting you, in fact just the opposite. Stay cool and calm and let him look like the agitated one, composure is everything and wins in the end. They feed off of causing a reaction and wearing you down, it’s in the nasty divorce playbook. Knowing that it’s just a calculated chess move, be smarter and don’t play. [/quote] +1. Go grey rock. I learned about it here and it really helped me get through my divorce. And find a support system. I was so weary I agreed to several unfair outcomes just to escape. Don’t hurt your financial ground or your child’s future in that way. If you can afford it, it is worth it to borrow whatever you can to hire a good attorney that can be a buffer. Direct all communications through email, so you can step away and give a rational response. It’s tough. I’m sorry Op. but it will not go on forever. [/quote]
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