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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Best thing to deal with narcissists is to engage as less as possible. I know you have kids but pretty much no contact, no personal discussion about your situation and nothing additional. They get off in making you feel crappy and sucking up your energy by using every chance to degrade you. [/quote] I know this is common advice, but some people don't take no for an answer and not engaging doesn't work on them. They will just escalate and escalate until they get to the level where you must respond. If you find your narcissist ex doing something on purpose to upset you, just pretend to engage. Pretend to be upset so they get their tiny bit of sick satisfaction, and you will be unscathed. It's better than having them fish around for worse and worse things to do -- like suing for custody when they don't want it and then dropping it in front of the judge, for example. Know your narcissist.[/quote]
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