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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you really pretty?

At the risk of sexually stereotyping....are you Latina? Or from the Caribbean? And are you interacting and working with expose who are largely white, waspy  types?  I’ve noticed my friends who are Latina are often very flirty by more standards with guys they have NO interest in. It’s just how they interact with men. Kinda flirty.[/quote]

I wrote this. There’s so many typos in it because I am dictating. Sorry. It barely makes sense. Basically I’m wondering what culture you come from and the cultural backgrounds of the people who were saying you’re being flirty. I’ve noticed friends of mine from certain cultures Often act with men and away I consider flirty but they do not consider 40 and I know for a fact they are not interested in the men. But the men and other people around them think that the women are interested.[/quote]

I think I'm average in the looks department. Your everyday brown skin nerdy black woman. There's a rather significant amount of black and latino people at my job(the guy in question is also black). [/quote]

OK this makes sense to me now (black woman). Feels like a throwback to the any talking to any man at any time means you are "fast" and flirting. Certainly the messaging I got growing up (am a Gen Xer). [/quote]

It's sad that things have to be this way[/quote]

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