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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perhaps steer her towards therapy so she can unpack why she is in a relationship with a married man who has disabled children and that will ultimately self-destruct. She needs to examine her motivations with a neutral party and not with you. And I would tell her that, in a nice way, so that she can start to get some help and figure out her life.[/quote] +1 I know you are her friend, and not his, but even if he DOES leave his wife and disabled children, he is going to be a pariah in his old social group. So she gets what she wanted (the guy) but also gets an old dude who she somehow needs to find a way to make fit in her social group, since he burned his own relationships down to have the affair. The other possibility is that he doesn't intend to leave his wife, but she kicks him out when she learns of the affair. Now she has a sad sack who never actually meant to be divorced. Fun times. [/quote]
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