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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you rely on this friend so much to help you out?  You are presumably a functional adult with a husband.  Why did you leverage a single lady who “has had a tough life”?  To quote my dad “What did you need her for” that she had to help you out?

Probably because your emotionally healthy friends wouldn’t put up with your nonsense. They had husbands, kids, dogs, lives they didn’t disrupt to come to your rescue.

Did you rely on this friend to the point that she wasn’t able or felt she wasn’t able to find a guy, date, build a healthy relationship?  You know her history and emotional state which means you also know her weaknesses.  I’m wondering if you may have exploited them way more then you are willing to admit?

I ask because as a married lady, I can’t understand why you’d even entertain the discussion.  I’d be worried she’d go after my husband or just be nasty to him or worst yet, accuse him of something he didn’t do.

Look at whether or not you too have mistreated this friend, encourage her to find a guy who is single and then stay away from her until this train wreck ends.  [/quote]

NP. That was an impressive leap without a pole to vault from. 7/10.[/quote]

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