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[quote=Anonymous]Take a deep breath, OP. It’s going to be fine. But it will be bumpy for a bit. 1. Sounds like he knows you have figured it out. So, ASAP, make copies of all documents. 2. See a lawyer STAT to understand your options. 3. He is cheating. You do not need proof. Don’t waste your time and money on an investigator. 4. Once you have done 1 and 2, sit down with your husband and figure things out. I can’t presume to know what you will decide, but please go in with your eyes open. He is cheating. Let him know that you know he is cheating. Honestly, he doesn’t sound like someone worth keeping around but i am not you. If you want to give it a shot, or at least are open to it, invest in counseling. 5. I know you say you need the homeopathic doc but chances are you don’t. Try to see other covered docs to see if you can figure out a better option. Good luck! It will work out ok. [/quote]
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