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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry.  I would end it also.  He isn't 100% with you.  He may move on eventually...likely when his ex re-marries, but who knows.  All you can do is figure he isn't ready now and hasn't been honest with you and move on[/quote]

OP: According to him, they met when he was 19. She's the only other woman he's ever been with. So, from 19 to 34, she was his life. He said to me once, "It's hard to cut off someone who was part of your life for 20 years. Sometimes they're still important to you even if you aren't in love with them." I don't know what to do with that.[/quote]

OP, I was close with my ex from 19 years of age. My SO expressed concern about his motives, and I tried to defend them. Ultimately, I ended that friendship because he was not worth losing the love of my life over. It was not a difficult choice. If your boyfriend truly loved you, he wouldn’t threaten your relationship with inappropriate ties. It’s one thing if she is introduced to you and he isn’t hiding the relationship. But there is too much deceit. If he is doing this now, please rest assured that this is a character trait that is a large red flag, outside of the inappropriateness of the relationship. He is emotionally immature, and he is deceitful when challenged. You want a husband and father that will fight for you and your family when the chips are down. You shouldn’t feel like this now when you are only dating. I wish you the best and hope you make the tough choice that is truly the best choice.[/quote]

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