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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Given the age difference, with your first two clumped and then a big gap, I wouldn't. It seems like there's a real risk for the kid to feel like an outsider. [/quote] I agree that the age gap is giving me pause. We're discussing DE or donor embryos for a second child, and on paper have no issue with DE for a third. But two closely spaced siblings then a 7 year gap is a lot. Add to that the DE consideration and I'm not sure I'd do it. I think it depends on the individual - some grown children would probably feel left out and separate, others would be able to handle it. I think temperament is a shot in the dark, so it's a personal choice if you want to take that risk.[/quote]
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