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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds normal OP. It's also normal for lots of women not to care about some of that stuff too (color schemes, invites, decor, etc...) My husband and I sat down and talked about what we each cared about the most. Some things that were really important to him were less so to me - so he took the lead on those (open bar, DJ), and vice versa - I took the lead on photographer and decor. We both cared a lot about the venue and related big logistics so we did those together. Neither of us cared significantly about color schemes and such so we didn't spend significant money or energy there. Our approach worked pretty well for us - we were happy w/ the things we cared about, happy that we shared the work, and happy that we didn't spend money on things that seem even less important to us now (fancy invites or matching bridesmaid dresses...)[/quote]
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