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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse has an incurable chronic illness that shortens life spans greatly. It’s been a quick decline the past few years, and it’s not the life either of us expected. It’s been...really really tough. I wouldn’t have gotten married or had kids with my spouse if I knew what was to come. I do trauma/grief counseling once per week, and it’s honestly the one thing I look forward to every week. I get to let everything out, and it feels so good to do so. As for what I do for my spouse - it’s gotten tough to be sympathetic. When he’s in pain (which is all the time), he lets it out on me now. He didn’t do that before we got married. I end up just feeling resentful now, and I don’t know that I have any good advice for that.[/quote]
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