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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be the one person in her family that does not comment about her weight or give her suggestions on how to lose it. You don’t need to process anything except how to be kind. [/quote] +1 She’s an adult. She knows how much weight she’s gained, and she knows the health risks. Unless she brings it up, you just be there for her, with unconditional love and support. This might help ameliorate the stress that is causing her to overeat, or enable her to open up to you. If she brings it up, only then do you gently address it: “I know it’s so hard. I love you and of course I want you to be as healthy as you can be”, etc. Follow her cues. [/quote]
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