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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. but we have not had sex in 6 months and he completely ok with it. He has been going through some health issues but nothing too serious. [/quote]

Well, I'm not saying this applies in your case, but same situation here (separate bedrooms, not much sex), and then I found out he'd been hooking up with men. I'm learning this is a lot more common than I ever dreamed.[/quote]

Omg.  I’m sorry.  We have always slept in the same bed (though I kicked mine out when I found out he was sleeping with another woman—while still having a very active sex life with me).  He’s back in our bed and I am grossed out when he tries to hold me.

Get tested.

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Not to derail the thread but why stay married?  My wife also caught me cheating, it was 10 months ago, and she still wants nothing to do with me physically but begs me not to divorce.  Do you plan on being celibate or are you just biding time until you are ready for divorce?[/quote]

We are having a lot of sex at times.  After he was STD tested TWICE- 3 months apart.  Google “hysterical bonding”.  Then I hate myself for doing it when I think about what he did.  It’s a cycle.

What are you doing about it?  Mine is really working hard—therapy 4 days per week and everything around the house.  He’s shown incredible remorse and self hatred for what he did.  That’s the only reason he is here for now.  The sex has been amazing which is why he’s back in the bed.  I have no idea what our future holds, but my kids are starting high school and I have no plans for separate homes or messing up their world...while he messes up mine.[/quote]

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