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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She knew her cousin had a toddler before she gave it to you. [/quote] But she may not have known her cousin would lose her job and be financially strapped unable to buy it. She may not have known the cousin was borrowing item from a friend who now needed it back. She may not have known the cousin would get divorced and she needed an item for her house since ex has other. She may not have known toddler's physical therapy progressed better than expected and she can now use item.[/quote] But she knew she had promised the item to OP, had given it to OP. Therefore the best human respons to that is to uphold her arrangment with OP. Second to that is : So she then says to OP, " I'm sorry. I know I let you borrow item x, However, my cousin is having an emergency and needs item x now. I know this is an inconvenience to you, and I apologize. I can come pick it up today at 3 if you're available." And if she's really kind " I can help send out feelers to other moms for item X."[/quote]
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