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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that asking people to go to a B&B for three dats us asking a lot. Have a party one night. Not a year after you get married. [/quote]

This. You can do what you want, but you don't get to be furious when people decline. What matters the absolute most is creating a happy and healthy union with your spouse. A reasonable expectation is for people to have the choice to spend a few hours with you celebrating. Once you turn into an expensive multi-day event it becomes a self-absorbed extravaganza especially with so many marriages ending in divorce. Once you have been to enough self0indulgent money blows followed by the divorce within 5 years, you start to wonder why people fall for the wedding industry BS. If you want the day to be just about you then elope. If you expect a bunch of people to take off from work and have their weekend plus revolve around you and your whims, then the polite thing to do is to actually allow input from those guests. Otherwise you end up with a very small group supporting you.[/quote]

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