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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We were doing infertility treatments[b] so my husband clearly knew we were trying[/b] and the rough timing. I knew exact timing of ovulation but never told him “this is when we HAVE to do it.” I tried to make things interesting and spontaneous so we both had fun and he wasn’t experiencing the pressure of scheduled sex. [/quote]

That does not equate to his being all in (in more ways than one). [/quote]

PP -- I may have misunderstood what you were getting it. You mean that you didn't tell him this was the moment of ovulation? Pretty sure he wasn't fooled into thinking it was actually uscheduled. [/quote]

To answer the first comment, HE wanted kids more than me and I let him tell me when he was ready to go the infertility route, so yes he was all in. :)

He knew the basic timing of cycles and ovulation but when I was tracking I never said explicitly today is peak fertility so we should have sex tonight. I also had crazy hormones the week before so we had a lot of sex the days before. I bet if I asked what day he thought was peak he’d have no idea! Of course right after ovulation my drive tanked. But basically I just didn’t want it to feel like a chore for him because I thought it would lead to OP’s problem of too much pressure and then performance issues. I just wanted him (and me!) to have some fun![/quote]

So, just confirming it is ED? Because mine has a different issue where ED isn't a problem at all, but he can't ever get there. This didn't used to be an issue, but obviously a great sex life on my part with no ejaculation is an issue TTC. [/quote]

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