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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is one of the worst components of breaking up.

And it doesn’t necessarily mean that you still love + want the person.

Since this guy doesn’t sound like a very good guy, I think imagining him w/someone else should not be a legit reason to stay.
(I know from personal experience &gt;&gt; Much easier said than done‼️)
But try to keep a realistic perspective.

Because if he does move on & find someone else -
Just keep in mind that he is “her” problem now and no longer yours.

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OP: That's what I've been trying. I keep imagining him losing his temper with someone else, being cold to someone else, and calling someone else a b*tch. I'm trying hard to imagine the bad parts of him that will be dumped onto someone else. [/quote]

The sexual attraction is probably great and difficult and probably some possessiveness there that attracts you to him but given his temper and your animosity to him you will both end up hurt here. There's no easy way around it and I doubt you will fully move on or him. I suggest to take a break from him and figure things out but don't break up yet.[/quote]

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