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[quote=Anonymous]A secret this big makes for a crappy marriage. I would not want to live a lie. It was painful as shit, but I respected my DH for telling me after he ended his affair. He also answered every ? I had about it and I wanted every dirty detail..and the mundane. It really explained a lot of his past behavior and it made him finally deal with the severe repressed childhood trauma. Really bad stuff I never knew about it and I met him when he was 24. He’s 48 now. His willingness to commit to his own therapy for life and make many changes went a long way. In a crazy way, getting all of that and the sheer horror of it for awhile did bring us closer. We did have a good marriage prior and really love each other’s company. [/quote]
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