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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, thank you, lots of good things to think and talk about. I am worried about all substances. I was wondering if big state schools would be more focused on tailgating, sports, and parties. But, if SES is a big factor, then perhaps not. For background, I attended a small women’s college. Alcohol was available but no peer pressure. A bit lost on how to advise my very social son. [/quote]

SES is not the biggest factor at all. I went to a high-SES school, intense, huge frat scene. I only drank a little and it was my choice. I never let it become a habit or affect my academics. Even now, I barely drink at all, based on habits that I taught myself as a college student. I second the solo cup idea. Also, drink slowly or pretend to drink. Honestly, most of the booze available is terrible at frats anyway, so it's not hard to pretend to drink it.

My husband's cousin attended a big state school, fell in with a drug crowd, dropped out, and served jail time for dealing.

Is your son a leader or a follower? If he has self-confidence and a clear goal going into college, he will be fine. If he is directionless and going because you/others expect him to or relies on others to make choices, then he is more likely to have a problem.[/quote]

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