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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You realize that your DH is influenced by his best friend. If you believe the best friend can cheat, particularly getting away with it then in all likelihood your DH will as well.  He remains best friends with a cheater means he doesn’t see it as a character flaw.[/quote]

Oh please, half of men cheat in marriages and if you count cheating on girlfriends, it's higher.  Men with 3 best friends have one that cheated.  It's common.  It doesn't mean her DH will.

I swear, women like to make this some fatalistic thing they can't control - his dad cheated!  His friend cheated! - rather than putting an effort into keeping your man from wandering.[/quote]

This is bs.  It’s just data that men who have fathers who cheated are more likely to cheat.  It makes sense as we learn many behaviors and thought patterns from those around us.  We are more likely to hang around those who are like us and can be influenced by them.  BTW, your 1 out of 3 friend does not add up.  1 out of 3 is an average but it could also mean that there are clusters where there are no cheaters and clusters where most friends have cheated (like hangs out with like).  Bad use of statistics to make your argument.[/quote]

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