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[quote=Anonymous]Married 15 years, two kids, middle school and have not been successful, sex is down to 6x in last year and was maybe 20x a year in a good year after kids came. Look, at some point, BOTH partners have to want something for it to happen, whether its more sex, financial security, connection vacations, etc. if only one of you wants it, there is no advice other than 1) learn to live without it, or 2) divorce. I wouldn't describe my marriage as bad, we get along fine, are kind to each other, raising successful kids and financially stable. I want the spark, spouse could go without sex forever, so here we are. We are not alone, I think this is about the norm after a while.[/quote]
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