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Reply to "If you’ve been with your partner for 12-20 + years & have kids"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's interesting that this thread focused on sex, that wasn't my first thought at all. OP said sex happens 1x a week already which seems fine to me. There's a lot more to spark/chemistry than that IMO. I just barely met your cutoff (12 yrs, two kids) so take my advice with a grain of salt, but we really make a point to enjoy each other. We talk to each other about work, politics, dreams for the future, current events, etc. We try new activities together. We get away whenever possible (rarely). He is just still my favorite person in the world and we get along so well. I love him to death. Maybe I'm ok with a lower level of "spark" than others but to me the feeling of deep comfort and security I have with him is way better. We make each other laugh and support each other endlessly. He doesn't feel like a roommate by any stretch. He feels like family. I guess that's not the sexiest thing in the world but we are happy. [/quote]
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