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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love how, when this female OP writes that they make sure to have sex 1-2 a week, people write in saying “sex isn’t everything.” Whereas if a man wrote this, saying he was hoping for his wife to get to this frequency, people would be telling him to “open the marriage.” Such a mixed message depending on if the op is male or female.[/quote] The "open the marriage" message applies only to a spouse who wants more sex but their partner rejects them. That does not seem to be OP's scenario at all. Not even sure if OP is a female, though I agree with you and suspect so, because "she" is struggling to even have interest in her current weekly sex schedule. Few men would ever write that. So the message is based on [u]desire for sex yet a rejecting partner[/u]. If that appears to be gender biased, it's because so few wives face this problem.[/quote]
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