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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me guess, this isn't the first time your DH has been annoyed that he's trying to talk to you and you can't take your eyes off the phone.

I'm totally on team DH on this one.  You sound like a piece of work, and I"m going to guess that you rarely see your own fault. [/quote]

+1  You prioritized your texting over conversation with DH.  Instead of ignoring him why he was trying to communicate with you, you should have acknowledged his attempt and, if you couldn't drag yourself away from your device, asked him to give you a minute.  [/quote]

+2 and you likely spend hours on your phone a day. I suggest at 7 pm you put it in a basket and don’t look at it until 9 am the next morning.[/quote]

+3  should he have called you trashy, no but you were in fact acting trashy and your behavior was completely unwarranted. You don't get to behave abusively ( ignoring, yelling, and swearing) and then dictate how people respond.

So apologize and do better. Make some rules for yourself:  limit your time on the phone in the evening be it for work or other reasons,  the phone goes in a basket  away from the bed after Xpm.  Allow time to talk to each other uninterrupted by texts and emails. If you really and truly have to look at an email say " I really want to be able to focus on what you are telling me, can you give me 5 minutes to finish the email, and I'll be able to give you my full attention."  and then do that.  Namecalling is not allowed for the both of you ever. [/quote]

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