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Reply to "I’m married and I have developed feelings for a friend"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look up limerance. Sounds like you are rewriting history a bit now that this guy is in the picture. Read on survivinginfidelity.com - look at posts by people who have been cheated on and those who cheated. The cheaters invariably follow a script (cheaters all rewrite history, etc), and when they get distance from the person they “had feelings” for, they invariably recognize it was way more about how that person made them feel than it was about the person.[/quote] Yup, this goes beyond a harmless crush. OP is rewriting history, casting this man as her children's stepfather, making excuses, making up stories about how she's justified because she's dreamed DH is having an affair, without a shred of evidence, and most importantly she admits that these issues have only been present since her obsession with her friend began. [/quote]
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