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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, why would you want to keep the other woman away from the child?

I understand the hurt feelings because she was the affair partner, but unless she is abusive to your child or has other behavioral or psychological issues that put your child’s wellbeing at risk, there is no reason for you to prevent your child from being around her.

How old is your child? Is there conflict? Did the child express any reasons not to want to be around her?

As much as it hurts you, it’s probably now best for child to normalize back relationships including with the dad and his partner.[/quote] My child is 13. She's not abusive from what I hear she's a lovely person even though she's a homewrecker. She doesn't have children and I am worried about her trying to mother my child. My child already has a mother. [/quote]

The worst thing that could happen is that she loves your child?

Please, therapy. Your child will always know who her mother is, and other people loving him or her won’t take away from that. I promise. Please believe me. You [b]want[/b] the other woman to love your child because it would be a good thing for your child. Please try to see past your own hurt. I swear you will not be replaced. Nobody can replace a mother. But the stepmother can be a wonderful thing if everybody involves wants the best for your child. [/quote]

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