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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, why would you want to keep the other woman away from the child?

I understand the hurt feelings because she was the affair partner, but unless she is abusive to your child or has other behavioral or psychological issues that put your child’s wellbeing at risk, there is no reason for you to prevent your child from being around her.

How old is your child? Is there conflict? Did the child express any reasons not to want to be around her?

As much as it hurts you, it’s probably now best for child to normalize back relationships including with the dad and his partner.[/quote] My child is 13. She's not abusive from what I hear she's a lovely person even though she's a homewrecker. She doesn't have children and I am worried about her trying to mother my child. My child already has a mother. [/quote]

If they forget married, then she will be a step-mother to your daughter. She won't replace you,  but she will need to mother your daughter while she is with her.  Remember, she won't replace you; she will be a parent figure, though-- one more person to love your daughter.

I think therapy is good advice.  [/quote]

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