Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Indoor Wedding for 150 People?! Give me a break!"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Eh, I'm expecting to get a bunch of side-eye from family for not attending my cousin's 50-person wedding in July. (Assuming it's even allowed under the state guidelines by then.) Weddings are perfect super-spreader events, and I just can't imagine going and being relaxed enough to have fun. 150 people indoors? I'd send my regrets without a second thought. I think the reason I expect pushback is that (1) the person getting married is not known for "extending grace," and (2) when you decline, people who are nervous and defensive about their choice to have the event in the first place will feel judged, and that often turns into anger at the person who is "making" them feel that way. There's nothing you can do about that, though. To me, it's not worth getting sick just so someone else doesn't feel bad about their own choices. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
