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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry about your fertility struggles OP. I can see on your end how her talking about IVF/her fertility struggles could have been a way for her to open up and bond with you about having similar struggles. [/quote] Only if she/her husband want that and are open to that. What many, many women on here don't seem to get is that a lot of us who get married in our 30s or so already have strong friends and family ties. I like my SIL a lot. But when something happens and I need support, I call my mom/sis, female cousins, closest college friends, and closest mom friends. I really do like SIL, but she lives in CA. We've seen each other for a few days at a time maybe a total of 20 times. I am not as close with her as I am with "my people." If we ever had a problem and DH wanted to talk to her, sure, I would never stop him from discussing our lives. But it would never occur to me to call her for support when I already have support.[/quote]
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