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Op here.  Wow that would be an awesome shed.  I wish it would work, but it won't.  [b]If I have no access to it, it will be a mess within weeks and although I wouldn't care if my things were left alone[/b], it still leaves my basement to be destroyed and disrespected and in the end this is what it feels like to me.  Complete and total disrespect for the money things cost, our time, my stress level, etc.    And definitely disrespect for common sense which anyone can see because it makes no sense to take extra time "later" to clean up a much bigger mess, spend more time looking for things, and quite often just buying another item because you can't find the first and don't have time to sort through 10 boxes.

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OP, that's the point, it will be a mess without you having access to it ... and thats ok! it's THEIR space.  They can either live with the mess as they see fit, or clean it.  But it isn't YOUR burden to clean it, it's their space.

Alternatively, you could carve out a "she-shed" space that they are NOT allowed in, it's for YOU only and you keep it as clean as YOU like.

From your posts, it seems like the challenge lies in different perspectives, you feel this is imperative for them to learn, and they feel they don't mind the mess and chaos.  [/quote]

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