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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This isn't about who is moving in with whom; this is about compatibility. You're not compatible.  This is not a life partner for you.  And if you are female and want kids (not sure from your post), your clock is running out.  Not the guy for you.  You don't have to hate them or have them be horrible people to be not the right person for you.[/quote]

I actually think group living would be pretty ideal with kids (provided the other couple has kids too).  One of the worst parts of having babies and little kids is that you can’t go anywhere, even for a few minutes, without packing them up and bringing them with you.  You could also have an only child, yet still have a sibling relationship.
Kids could share the fourth bedroom.  [/quote]

Not the point. S/he's not excited about the group living and the guy thinks it's normal and desirable.  This is not a little thing. At best it means he's immature, and if he really thinks this is how he wants to live for his life, this is not for OP. Right now it sounds like he's looking for a FWB that will now be right there all the time. So you might like to have kids in a group house, but OP clearly doesn't like anything about group living. They're not compatible.[/quote]

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