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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here... my thought has always been that it wasn’t her decision to make regarding not telling me. Everyone has the right to know who their bio parents are. Rapist, murderer, affair partner it doesn’t matter. I don’t remember out right asking her when I was younger, but one of my aunts told me that around the time I was 3 years old, I told her he died in a motorcycle accident. Obviously not true since he didn’t pass until I was a teenager. They dated for quite awhile, according to the coworker. She also dated 2 of my younger brothers’ dads for a very long time. My mom has always been very cold and never talks about personal things. She never hugs me or says ‘I love you,’ and shipped me to my grandparents house an hour+ away every weekend and school holiday until I was a teenager. My brothers had much better adoptive parents than our mom was to me. Knowing everything now, a lot of my childhood makes more sense.[/quote]

Meant to add that I did ask her after my oldest was born 11 years ago, citing health reasons for my child, and she refused to answer and then didn’t talk to me for almost a year.[/quote]

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