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[quote=Anonymous]I think we all know the big red flags but smaller flags IMO... a parent still makes their medical appointments, does their taxes, hires someone to clean their house, over involved in very basic adult responsibilities, etc. These tasks will all fall on you once you are together. Another (if you value special occasions or gifts) they never remember birthdays, they don’t shop for gifts, never think to bring a dish or a gift if they are a houseguest. Basically just a failure to launch. I dated someone with an engineering graduate degree who was very smart but was basically looking for a replacement parent not a spouse. A lot of the issues I see mentioned are smaller things that actually increase your emotional labor later on. This is true for both genders. [/quote]
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