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[quote=Anonymous]God, OP. You don't say anything to him about his weight unless he asks. He knows. If he IS feeling anxious and depressed, you are going to make it worse. I say this as a woman with deep-rooted issues about my weight that started with family members like you. I could NOT get away from judgement about my body and it was horrible, the degree to which my family watched me and felt they could "lovingly" comment when they thought I was gaining weight because they "wanted me to be healthy." (And I wasn't even overweight). Can't you just let him feel safe and loved around you? I guarantee he is thinking of his weight all of the time. Just leave it.[/quote]
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