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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well the truth is that she IS being excluded, so her feelings are valid. The problem is, she thinks you can help with the exclusion, but you cannot or will not. You know this OP but she does not, because you haven’t been honest with her. You value your inclusion in this group more than rocking the boat on the other woman’s behalf. Ok, fine, whatever. But don’t try to have it both ways - be direct and tell her, yes you get left out but I can’t or won’t do anything about it. Then she can decide if she wants to be friends with you. [/quote]

No, her feelings are NOT valid. Most of us learn in second grade that not everyone is invited to every little thing. She wants OP to report on other people's events to her? She needs to grow the hell up.[/quote]

I agree with this. I would probably simply let her know it was not an event you hosted and she can feel free to contact the host.

I also would slowly ghost her. I have one kid with SN and I don't expect people to bend over backward for me. He even had social skills issues which have improved. When he was constantly excluded I didn't make it other people's problem. I took as a sign he needed help socially and I got him help. Now he has friends. It is poor manners for her to confront you the way she did and to try to invite herself to things.[/quote]

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