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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't want to live like that either. Oh wait....I do live like that. Passive aggressive comments, "unintentionally" rude comments, dismissive comments, etc.

[b]I know people that don't live with it would call it being too sensitive, but when it's constant and pervasive, it isn't ok.  [/b] The other day I was expressing how much I would love to be a detective because I love solving puzzles, researching people and things...after I had found out some obscure bit of information on the internet.    His comment. :   "yeah....as long as you can just google it, right?  Haha".     It's this way with everything about me because if a friend had said it and laughed I wouldn't have thought twice about it and would probably have laughed too.  But he is demeaning and dismissive about me all of the time, which changes the tone of how you take something, too.  There isn't anything "else" to balance those comments out, or to make it seem like he was just being funny if you know what I mean.

Get out if you can.   It's demoralizing.  
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This is my read on it too.  Any one thing taken alone, or even all of these read together might not seem that bad but if he's always saying shitty and hurtful things all the time it's not okay.  The way I see it, your spouse is the person you spend the most time with, and you should endeavor to be better to them than anyone else.  Of course sometimes you'll fall short, but too many people use their spouse as their punching bag and take all their bad attitude out on them so they can put on a good face to outsiders.  I wouldn't stay in a marriage like that.[/quote]

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