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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You got married & had children young OP, and now that you are approaching the big 3-0, you may be worrying that your youth is slowly slipping away....

Along w/it, missed opportunities.

This is a normal feeling to have during milestone birthdays.

I think you should first talk to a professional counselor + see what they advise you doing.
One that can provide an objective perspective to what I believe is a problem more common than we think.

Good luck![/quote]

You aren’t going to get what you are looking for. You will never be a carefree 20 something or 30 something - that ship has already sailed. Make what you have work.  No one is going to come and sweep you off your feet - that isn’t your life, and you need to deal with that.[/quote]

+2. OP, what you are mourning is a phase and time of life that is now behind you. Dating as a 30 year old mom isn't going to be like that of a single unattached 21 year old just starting out in life without a care in the world. It's just not the same when you (and the person you'd be dating) are older and have responsibilities.

I recommend individual counseling and an increased effort to reconnect with your husband, who sounds like a perfectly good partner. [/quote]

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