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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Igh I'm sorry. I'm a DW and I made it clear from the second I got pregnant our bed would remain child free (and pet free). Im a HUGE believer in strong marriage, happy family. I was a nanny for 15 years before having kids. I worked for 4 families over that span and 2 families that coslept had a very strained marriage, one of them is now divorced. My daughter sleeps 6:45p-7:30a and knowing I have that time with DH or to myself does wonders for my mental health.

Can you put the shared mattress in the master then have DW move from mattress to bed with you and kid on the mattress then mattress back to kids room by himself? A slow weaning process?[/quote]

Yeah, this is my super crunchy, Hippie Boomer mom's opinion. Breastfeed til 3? Hells yeah! Cloth diaper, all organic, free to be you and me nature kids, great! The line is drawn on co-sleeping. "In my day, we called that co-dependency."

I never bought the "family bed" concept for a minute. Side car sleeper for a few months when they are itty bitty, but by sleep training age, it's time to learn to cope. The person with a 6 year old in the bed? That's not "a bad sleeper" that's a parenting choice. I was going to sleepaway camps alone at that age, not unable to sleep if not in the parental bed. That's abnormal and there is no doubt it impacts your marriage in a negative way. Cut the cord. [/quote]

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